Erotic spanking and BDSM culture has recently gained widespread recognition in Germany, not least thanks to the bestseller "Fifty Shades of Grey" by E. L. James. The sexual fantasies of the protagonists treated in the erotic novel are not new phenomena, but have always been slumbering as part of human sexual fantasy in many people. A modern phenomenon, on the other hand, is the increasing openness of society to these previously unspoken issues. What was previously held back under socially conservative pressure is now increasingly gaining social acceptance. Supported by this movement, erotic spanking (What is spanking?) spreads as well. It is often regarded as part of the BDSM culture, but can also be exercised independently. Depending on your preference, physical arousal or the joy of the dominant devote role-playing game is in the foreground. As society's acceptance of spanking increases, so does the number of people who try it out and regularly practice it. Often something new! - that is a guiding principle of our time. The skepticism before the new can prevent us from getting to know and perhaps love the unknown. For many interested people, spanking opens up a completely new sexual world that enriches their sexual life.
If you haven't had any experience with spanking yet, you will find a quick reference guide with many practical tips for the "first time" under The first spanking experience. Of course, there are always two of them: One that actively distributes and one that is passively beaten up. If Spanking is not yet part of the sex life in your relationship, talk to your partner about your wishes and desires and keep your sex life alive and varied (How do I tell my partner?). Do not stay in familiar patterns, swap roles! The role distribution of the dominant man and the submissive woman, which is often common in sex life, can also be reversed: Give the booklet (or paddle) to your wife. Many a woman discovers hidden preferences in this way (Man spanks woman - or vice versa?). What can be used for spanking? In addition to spanking with the flat hand, the use of practical aids ensures a particularly sparkling experience. A variety of different instruments are suitable for this purpose, ranging from everyday household items such as cooking spoons or table tennis bats to classics such as the wooden paddle (Spanking instruments). Follow in the footsteps of famous spanking lover like the French philosopher Jean-Jacques Rousseau (1712 - 1778) and immerse yourself in the fascinating world of spanking.
The erotic spanking describes an amicable erotic role-playing game, which originates from the pleasure of both partners and in which security and mutual trust are the highest principles. The erotic spanking is a tingling intermezzo of pain and joy, which both partners enjoy as it were (Why do pain bring joy? ). In contrast to erotic spanking, traditional spanking is not consensual but serves as a "real" physical punishment and disciplinary measure. Throughout history, spanking has been used in many ways (History of the paddle). It was widely used, for example, in slavery in the USA or in penitentiaries in Europe in the 18th and 19th centuries. In the USA, spanking has been and still is widely used in schools (Spanking in American society). Fortunately, in Germany today the use of physical punishment is no longer permitted in schools and in parental education and is partly punishable (legal situation). Spanking should never be used outside the erotic range: Neither as a disciplinary measure against children in school or in parental education nor as a form of domestic violence against women. Violence in child rearing - including the allegedly insignificant pat on the buttocks - has lasting effects on the child's psyche! Never tolerate spanking where both partners do not participate voluntarily in the game. Never practice spanking in the presence of children.